Independence

In class we talked about at what age does someone become independent and we talked about a lot of different ages and different things we accomplish during life to make us independent- going to college, moving out of the house, or getting married are a few. Truth is it's not possible to become independent no matter what you do. you are always going to be depending on someone. whether it be your parents, teachers, friends, significant other, or other family you always need someone. It's unhealthy to completely depend on yourself because you will never learn all the important and unimportant things that will change your life. so if you think your independant your just stubborn and missing out. i also don't think as teenagers or younger are taught to be irresponsible. From a young age you are taught to follow the rules, turn assignments in on time and to do pretty much everything you are told, and than punished if those things are not done correctly but those things should be to help you because you dont know any better when your that young. its discipline and one of the most important things to be taught to a kid and for being taught to be asexual theres just a certain age where they don't need to know or do the things that someone older does. But i do agree we are made to be submissive at a young age and i dont think this is a bad thing as long as something is being taught through the submission. it is not the only way to learn a lesson but it could be more helpful than figuring it out yourself in the long run. it is up to the person whether to stay submissive when they become older or to evolve into a person that becomes dominant because of that submissive teaching.